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Psychic Love: How Do You Recognize Your Soulmate?

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“A soulmate is an ongoing connection with another individual that the soul picks up again in various times and places over lifetimes. We are attracted to another person at a soul level not because that person is our unique complement, but because by being with that individual, we are somehow provided with an impetus to become whole ourselves.”  — Edgar Cayce

Sometimes a psychic love reading is just what you need to clarify your feelings. A reading may also be enlightening to help you understand that it may be time to let go of a particular “love” relationship.

The dictionary defines “love” as “an intense feeling of deep affection or “a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone.”

In spiritual terms, love is said to be the most important experience that a human being can have. We sacrifice for love. It inspires us. Love may be the strongest force in the universe. It is the energy that connects us all at a soul level and elevates all of humanity.

Popular culture views this deep feeling of fondness and tenderness as a wonderful thing. Music and film especially idealize the romantic type of love.

Despite the romance and beauty in the energy of love, it could turn deadly. Even if you find someone that you have lived other lives with, it can be toxic this time around.

“After removing the fairy-tale element, a soul mate defined is simply a soul you knew in a previous incarnation.” — Scott Petullo and Stephen Petullo

What is a Soulmate?

Have you ever looked across a crowded room and met the eyes of a stranger? Did you feel a heightened awareness or recognition? Maybe you were drawn together by an almost magical, magnetic energy.

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Do you think that you have met your soulmate? Does it feel like you may have finally connected up with that vital “other half”? Could be! Maybe that feeling of “deja vu” is the real deal. This person may be your soulmate.

Even if you are in the midst of this magical, mystical energy though, it may not be your destiny to stay with your soulmate forever.

There is an instant “knowing” of the person that may be your soulmate. It’s like an itch that you can’t scratch. You may feel strongly that you know them, but can’t remember from where. It isn’t easy not to get caught up in the energy. Some people look all their life for their “soulmate”.

You may be tempted to decide that this person is the answer to all your dreams.

Even if you are feeling yourself drawn towards this person, slow down and think about it. What is a soulmate, anyway?

Your soul is not divided into two halves. You are the total package. No other soul will “complete” you.

Although the feelings you are having may be profound, you can live without that other person. When we meet someone from another life, there is always a reason. But this person may not have been your lover in a previous existence.

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In terms of reincarnation, you may have lived many lifetimes before this physical incarnation. They could have been your parent, friend, brother, sister, or even your greatest enemy! Your soul geometry may be linked to hundreds or even thousands of other souls. There is often a karmic link to the people we are in relationships with today. So in that respect, you may have many so-called soulmates in the course of a lifetime.

So you have met someone that feels like a soulmate. Now it’s time to work on the relationship to end the karma. Sometimes we are destined to be with these lovers forever. More often, the soulmate energy is too overwhelming. We will have lessons involved with these attachments. It may be about being good to the person, letting go, or even learning to love unconditionally. There are as many karmic lessons as there are relationships.

Linked by Energy

People do not always get to choose who they love. When you love someone, you are linked to them by energy. Sometimes this connection goes both ways. That’s when love is at it’s best.

When your soulmate does not return or changes the love energy, it can become something else. Stalkers and angry exes may be both consciously or unconsciously building the energy in a relationship that has ended. When this happens, no one is focusing on working out the karma and learning and growing from the relationship.

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This type of focused energy can be distracting to both parties. It is not healthy for either soul. The unrequited lover experiences low self-esteem and depression. When you focus all your energy on someone else, it’s almost like you shrink your physical experience.

“Of course, what would your love life be without a little fantasy and magic? It’s the spice of love and can lead to much happiness, if you keep it in check and remember to be realistic.” — Scott Petullo and Stephen Petullo

Cutting the Psychic Cords

A strong emotional attachment that was first established in love energy is difficult to unravel. These psychic cords can exist in almost any relationship. But if you believe you are losing your soulmate, it can get desperate. Thoughts are energy! If you are fixating yourself on someone, you may be accidentally creating the strong and emotional ties to the lover. Even if you realize that the other person is not good for you, you may continue to focus on them. This focusing feeds the psychic cords and ultimately is unhealthy for the sender.

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Likewise, the person who has moved on may feel like a particular person is draining their energy. You may feel that an ex-lover may present a physical danger, as well as an energy attack. If someone identifies you as their soulmate and you don’t feel the same way, it may be time to cut the cord or sever that unreturned “love” energy link.

Cutting the emotional cord involves visualization. Always wish the soul well. Imagine letting them go so that they can find their true purpose and happiness. Let them move towards the light for healing. Often imagining an energy cord being cut by scissors or broken by giant hands works for closure.

It doesn’t matter if you are the source of the continued energy link or if it’s coming from someone else. You are letting go.

After you have cut the cord, surround yourself with white light for protection and inspiration. Now get ready to face the future.

Keep the faith. Remember that you have found them for a reason. There will always be soul connections that are healthier, happier and more compatible than others.

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So if you have to cut the energy link that binds you to one relationship, that may just be a way to open the door to another soulmate that will bring you greater joy. When the time is right, they will walk through that door.


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0 Responses

  1. Would like to know if I have ever came across My soul mate n will I be Happy. With him

  2. Hey Nakeia, feel free to call our toll free number 855-247-2617 so we can help you book a call with a psychic who can answer those questions!

  3. I have a very deep connection to someone but the relationship has not been well or good for me. Not sure what to do. The intellectual part says move on…..but if feel an energy bond with this person. Need help in figuring out how to handle this…and how to figure out bwho he has been to me or vise versa in the past

  4. Hey Janice, though you may have an energy bond with the person, you can still make a decision to move on. You could go on a past life reading with one of our psychics, but if the relationship is harming you, you can follow the instructions on this post on how to let go and move on.

  5. I havent seen my ex in 3 years Do soulmates come back to eachother ? i Still hold very strong feelings for that person and havent felt the way i did with him even after seeing many people he also hasnt had a girlfriend and i was wondering if soulmates can also take a break and have the energy move them towards eachother again later in life ? If so does it happen often or not?


  7. Hi Agrineth, I would suggest that you resolve your current issues, either by fixing your marriage or by getting divorced, before you look for your ex. If you make that connection now, it will cause you (and him) a lot more unhappiness, complications and problems. Deal with one at a time.

  8. Can you help me figure out what kind of energetic relationship this is? I feel energetically connected to someone I dated, almost like we were together in another life. We broke up for the second time in 1.5 years (both times very suddenly but because of issues he's struggling with), regardless, realistically, I can let our relationship go. But on a spiritual level, I feel like we're magnets being pulled apart and my soul has been pulled toward him. I can feel/ sense him sometimes, and I understand we can't be together this time around, but the pull is incredible. Thanks for any insight!

  9. Hey CASmith, I would think that you have made a connection in a previous life and there are reasons why you are drawn to him in this way. Sometimes those reasons don’t become clear until years later. You find yourself in a situation or life-stage and then you go… “Oh, that’s what all that was about”. He’s probably a ‘twin flame’, those relationships are usually intense but burn out once the wisdom/lesson has been assimilated, if not yet understood.

  10. When I caught eyes with him seven years ago, I was immediately clear that he and I had a connection far beyond mere attraction. It was an awakening of the soul. Even though we would remain strangers and not formally known to each other for a couple more years, any time we were at the same function he would do anything to touch me, be it by grazing my shoulder walking by or touching me deliberately with his hand. Upon formal introduction, he began greeting me with warm hugs, and true energy was exchanged although neither of us have discussed it other than remembering the exact moment we caught eyes, and the feeling we knew one another in spite of not really knowing each other presently at all. For five years this energy has persisted and in fact grown, yet still no discussion about it. But if I am finding myself thinking obsessively about him, I will suddenly see him at the grocery store that afternoon, or at church the following day. Is there any way to explain this in the sense of true spiritual connection to one another at the soul level? 

  11. Hey this is really weird but I have a strong connection with my sorta of off/on again crush. He is in college and everytime before he comes back home I have a very weird dream with in it. It is always on the night before he comes back this has happen 3 times. He had mixed feelings about me but I could never quite let him go and I can sense if he is not okay or if something is bothering him. It’s like I have a connection and I can’t break it

  12. Hi everyone this soulmate/twinflame this is confusing to me in that I was wondering can your soulmate/twinflame be of the same sex? 

  13. I have been having some issues lately and I'm not sure how to solve it. Lately I have been feeling very drained and this annoying guy keeps appearing in my mind now and then. I know there is no future between us and I know that if I tried I would likely end up getting hurt. Is it possible for that guy to be feeding off my energy? My sister( might be a psychic?) thinks he is feeding off of my energy.I'm pretty sure he knows this kind of relationship is impossible too. If you have any advice please let me know…


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